He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.Proverbs 26:7 KJV
Do you know what happens to someone who grabs a dog by the ears? They usually get bit!
M.Y.OB. Mind your own business. This isn’t a science. This is an art. It might even be a lost art. As a young leader don’t worry about what’s going on in other people’s lives and problems and drama around you. When you start minding business that is not yours it often leads to sticking your nose where it doesn’t belong. Life is challenging and complex enough on its own without spending time and energy busy bodying around in affairs that don’t have anything to do with you.